Sitting here in limbo
“Just passin’ time ’til things get squared away.” Tom Waits as Transman. The more Transman takes steps to publicly be himself, the more he winds up in limbo. His life is on hold in some respects—mostly...
View ArticleJust call me ‘Doctor’
“Yes, HR does have all your paperwork, Doctor. We’ll order new business cards right away!” When Transman’s boss made the announcement that he would officially be going by his male name at work...
View ArticleThe Office Party
So, it’s that time of year again. No matter your religion (or disbelief in altogether), this is the time of year when working stiffs the world over find themselves as unwilling participants in office...
View ArticleIt’s all a matter of perspective
“Are you a girl or a boy?” “Yes!” Boy George AND Annie Lennox as Transman. An odd thing about transitioning is not only can the trans person have a hard time noticing changes, so can the people he or...
View ArticleYay! … and ack!
” … and that over there is a bridge!” Cary Grant as Transman doing a teaching demonstration. Transman finally has been invited for an on-campus interview for a full-time teaching position. So, yay!...
View ArticleDivision of Labor
“Stand back, this is man’s work!” Cary Grant as Transman (who knows better than to mix acids and bases … because, well, he just does, okay?!)* So, Transman works in a pretty conservative environment–an...
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